Schools have an important role in preventing youth suicide and being aware of potential risk factors in students’ lives is vital to this responsibility. With the upcoming release of the second season of 13 Reasons Why, the National Association of School Psychologists has released the following guidance and advice when dealing with this sensitive topic within your families.
GUIDANCE FOR FAMILIES
1. Ask your child if they have heard or seen the series 13 Reasons Why. While we don’t recommend that they be encouraged to view the series, do tell them you want to watch it, with them or to catch up, and discuss their thoughts.
2. If they exhibit any warning signs, don’t be afraid to ask if they have thought about suicide or if someone is hurting them. Raising the issue of suicide does not increase the risk or plant the idea. On the contrary, it creates the opportunity to offer help.
3. Ask your child if they think any of their friends or classmates exhibit warning signs. Talk with them about how to seek help for their friend or classmate. Guide them on how to respond when they see or hear any of the warning signs.
4. Listen to your children’s comments without judgment. Doing so requires that you fully concentrate, understand, respond, and then remember what is being said. Put your own agenda aside.
5. Get help from a school-employed or community-based mental health professional if you are concerned for your child’s safety or the safety of one of their peers.
See this Preventing Youth Suicide Brief for additional information.
SAFE MESSAGING FOR STUDENTS
1. Suicide is never a solution. It is an irreversible choice regarding a temporary problem. There is help. If you are struggling with thoughts of suicide or know someone who is, talk to a trusted adult, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255), or text “START” to 741741.
2. Don't be afraid to talk to your friends about how they feel and let them know you care about them.
3. Be an “upstander” and take actions to reduce bullying and increase positive connections among others. Report concerns.
4. Never promise to keep secret behaviors that represent a danger toward another person.
5. Suicide is preventable. People considering suicide typically say something or do something that is a warning sign. Always take warning signs seriously and know the warning signs.
- Suicide threats, both direct ("I am going to kill myself.") and indirect ("I wish I could fall asleep and never wake up."). Can be verbal, written, or posted online.
- Suicide notes and planning, including online postings.
- Preoccupation with death in conversation, writing, drawing, and social media.
- Changes in behavior, appearance/hygiene, thoughts, and/or feelings.
- Emotional distress.
6. Separate myths and facts.
- MYTH: Talking about suicide will make someone choose death by suicide who has never thought about it before. FACT: There is no evidence to suggest that talking about suicide plants the idea. Talking with your friend about how they feel and letting them know that you care about them is important. This is the first step in getting your friend help.
- MYTH: People who struggle with depression or other mental illness are just weak. FACT: Depression and other mental illnesses are serious health conditions and are treatable.
- MYTH: People who talk about suicide won't really do it. FACT: People, particularly young people who are thinking about suicide, typically demonstrate warning signs. Always take these warning signs seriously.
7. Never leave the person alone; seek out a trusted adult immediately. School-employed mental health professionals like your school psychologist are trusted sources of help.
8. Work with other students and the adults in the school if you want to develop a memorial for someone who has died by suicide. Although decorating a student’s locker, creating a memorial social media page, or other similar activities are quick ways to remember the student who has died, they may influence others to imitate or have thoughts of wanting to die as well. It is recommended that schools develop memorial activities that encourage hope and promote positive outcomes for others (e.g., suicide prevention programs).
Read these helpful points from SAVE.org to further understand how 13 Reasons Why dramatizes situations and the realities of suicide.
Albion had 6 debaters attend a Jordan School District debate tournament on April 11. Chaitrali Samant won FIRST PLACE in Oratory Speaking. Congratulations Chaitrali!
We have more debate winners! Due to an error in calculating scores, some of our debaters found out they actually did win at the last debate tournament on March 15 at Mount Jordan Middle School.
Although we do have new trophies being made for them, these students did not get to enjoy being awarded at the awards ceremony. Please make sure to congratulate them on their huge success.
Novice Policy Debate
- FIRST PLACE TEAM! (and won all their rounds)
Nate Stevens & Tyler Trapp
Varsity Policy Debate
- 5th Place Team (and won all their rounds)
Maddie Azares & Paris Snider
Albion has been celebrating Kindness Matters week since returning from Spring Break to kick-off the last quarter of the school year. Each day has had a theme from Throw Kindness like Confetti to #Makeithappy by Spreading Kindness Online. Students have been encouraged each day to show and recognize the kind acts around them. Students were also challenged to complete 17 acts of kindness here at school and at home as well as participate in self-care/being kind to yourself activities.
Students have also had the opportunity to participate in a hands-on service activity during their lunch. We were able to collect approximately 220 pairs of used jeans in the week prior to Spring Break. Thanks Albion community! These jeans are currently being turned into shoes for Sole Hope, a 501(c)(3) organization that makes shoes for Ugandans.